September 19, 2023
Unexpressed feelings will never
.
Anxious people (and we are
all anxious people) try to control
other people mainly by editing
themselves — hiding the parts
they think others won’t like.
Most importantly, they bury their
feelings instead of expressing them
That last sentence defines the heart
of anxiety.
That’s because feelings are — excuse
this analogy — like shit.
Like feces, feelings are supposed to
be expelled and expressed, not
hidden and buried.
When they’re buried, they don’t
go away; they collect.
The person then becomes
emotionally constipated,
lives in a constant state of
internal self-interruption,
pressure, and emotional pain.
Anxiety is the name we give
to this pain.
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