Chapter 46: About boundaries

(This chapter is part of a self-assessment. For instructions on completing it, click here.)

[ ]   I tend to please others instead of myself.                                

[ ]   I have trouble saying No to requests or demands.

[ ]   I find it hard to not absorb other people’s feelings.               

[ ]   I feel controlled by other people’s anger.                             

[ ]   I will go out of my way to avoid conflict or disagreement.   

[ ]   In social situations I scan for danger.

[ ]   I have had sex when I didn’t want to.                        

[ ]   I have used sex to appease my partner or avoid conflict.                                                      

[ ]   It scares me to depend on other people.

[ ]   I accept unacceptable behavior.                                             

[ ]   I am loyal even when my loyalty is undeserved.                   

[ ]   I interpret rejection as implying something about me, not the rejector.  

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