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Bert Life 9/What Bert doesn’t see (the Second Paradox of Control)

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This is a blog about the oldest human addiction: control.

It’s co-authored by Steve, a therapist who specializes in control issues, and Bert, his control-addicted inner monkey.

(Bert is a metaphor. Steve’s mostly real.)

For a fuller explanation of what this is all about, click on CONTROL: AN INTRODUCTION and MEET MY MONKEY above.

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Welcome to MONKEYTRAPS.

Steve & Bert

COMING SOON: An expanded 2nd edition

CLICK HERE TO ORDER MONKEYTRAPS (THE BOOK)

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BERT’S IN THERAPY. To listen in, click on his nose.

Directory World

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