Sometimes being a healthy parent

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For a child, the taming of the heart

occurs when a parent survives the

onslaught of the child’s emotions. 

 

In psychotherapy, the prototype

for the taming of the heart is the

reciprocal exchange of feelings…. 

 

In meditation, the taming of the

heart takes place through the

gradual cultivation of mindfulness,

in which nonjudgmental awareness

is extended from the body to feelings,

emotions, and states of mind….

 

While the methods may differ,

the intent is the same: to recover

a capacity for feelings that we

are all somewhat afraid of.

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~ Mark Epstein, Going to pieces without falling apart (1999).

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