August 7, 2014
Baggage
The primary cause of relationship failure is unfinished business from the past — unresolved conflicts, unhealed wounds, unexpressed feelings, unmet needs. Both partners have them. Both partners carry this unconscious baggage into their relationship, where it contaminates how they see and feel and react to each other. We all do this, without exception. The relationships that survive and flourish are those able to face this psychological fact and work with it honestly and bravely.
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