People have said Don’t cry

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It is a grave injustice

to a child or adult

to insist that they

stop crying.

 

One can comfort a

person who is crying

which enables him

to relax and makes

further crying

unnecessary;

but to humiliate a

crying child is to

increase his pain,

and augment his

rigidity.

 

We stop other people

from crying because

we cannot stand the

sounds and movements

of their bodies.

 

It threatens our own

rigidity.

 

It induces similar feelings

in ourselves which we dare

not express and it evokes

a resonance in our own

bodies which we resist.


― Alexander Lowen 

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