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October 30, 2015

Meet me, already

By Steve Hauptman

Meet your inner monkey (final),,,enlarged

 

Coming December 2015.

Sample chapters here:

MONKEYTRAPS (THE BOOK).

 

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    This is a blog about the oldest human addiction: control.

    It’s co-authored by Steve, a therapist who specializes in control issues, and Bert, his control-addicted inner monkey.

    (Bert is a metaphor. Steve’s mostly real.)

    For a fuller explanation of what this is all about, click on CONTROL: AN INTRODUCTION and MEET MY MONKEY above.

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    Glad you found us.

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